Author: TheLagosianMagazine

Emotional regulation is the ability to understand, manage, and express your emotions in healthy ways. It does not mean suppressing how you feel. It means choosing wisdom over impulse, love over reaction, and peace over chaos. Every relationship will face misunderstandings, disappointments, and moments of tension. What strengthens the bonds is not perfection but the ability to pause, breathe, and respond throughfully. By regulating your emotions, you make rooms for: clearer communication, empathy, healthier boundaries, and fewer regret. Marriage thrives when both partners learn to regulate emotions, especially during disagreements. Racing your voice, shutting down, or reacting impulsively can damage…

By Moses Olafare The Nobel Laurette Professor Wole Soyinka has led a delegation of distinguished scholars and cultural advocates, on a visit to the Ooni of Ife Ooni Adeyeye Enitan Babatunde Ogunwusi – Ojaja II .The delegation warmly received with traditional songs, drums, and royal hospitality. During the visit, former Deputy Leader of the Yoruba Nation Self-Determination Movement, Professor Wale Adeniran, extolled Soyinka’s unwavering commitment to African unity and diaspora engagement. He stressed the need to reconnect Africans in the diaspora with their ancestral homeland, particularly those of Yoruba descent in Brazil and other parts of the universe. According to…

By Peter Omopo Pandemonium erupted in the Orile-Iganmu area of Lagos State on Tuesday when gunmen suspected to be members of rival cult groups opened fire during the annual Igunnuko masqueraders festival, leaving at least three people dead. Residents told PUNCH Metro on Sunday that the incident occurred shortly after the tall Igunnuko masquerader made its customary Tuesday appearance, a major highlight of the traditional celebration. What began as the usual display of gunshots fired into the air behind the masquerader—an act regarded as a show of bravado during the procession—quickly escalated into violence when suspected cultists allegedly redirected their…

By Jimmy Fatunbi The Executive Chairman of Onigbongbo Local Council Development Area (LCDA), Hon. Moyosore Adebanjo, has reinvigorated the LCDA’s empowerment drives with PAKAM activation in his commitment to improving the welfare of the community. In a meeting with the Empowerment Committee Executives, PAKAM officials, and representatives from the office of the SSA to the Lagos state governor on Climate change & Circular economy, Hon. Moyosore discussed the necessities of aligning the ongoing empowerment scheme of the LCDA with the objectives of PAKAM Activation Event. He however commended the Empowerment Committee for the progress made so far. He acknowledged their…

By Peter Omopo The Plateau State chapter of the Councillors Forum of Nigeria has firmly rejected alleged moves by Governor Caleb Mutfwang to defect from the Peoples Democratic Party to the All Progressives Congress. Speaking at a press briefing in Jos on Monday, the forum’s chairman, John Dashe, described the purported defection plan as a “desperate attempt” by the governor and his supporters to “smuggle him into the APC through the back door.” Dashe noted that Mutfwang had repeatedly dismissed the strength of the APC in Plateau State and publicly denied any interest in joining the party. He questioned why…

By Peter Omopo Troops of the 12 Brigade, Nigerian Army, have intercepted a major drug courier transporting a large consignment of Cannabis Sativa from Ekiti State to Obajana in Kogi State. The operation, carried out on Monday, was disclosed in a statement posted on the Brigade’s official X handle. According to the Acting Assistant Director of Army Public Relations, Lieutenant Hassan Abdullahi, soldiers deployed at the Agbede Response Area became suspicious during a routine stop-and-search on a Toyota Camry with registration number DKA 158AU. The vehicle, driven by Mr. Johnson Ayo, reportedly drew the soldiers’ attention after they spotted a…

In a world where social media amplifies every voice, image, and opinion, it is more important than ever to remain deeply conscious of who you are, not who the world wants you to be. What you post, like, share, or entertain reflects the values you hold within. Social media can either build or break trust, strengthen or weaken unity, uplift, or damage your witness. 1. Be mindful of your intentions. Before posting, ask yourself: Does this honour God? Does it represent who I truly am? Not everything that crosses your mind needs to cross your timeline. 2. Protect the dignity…

By Peter Omopo The House of Representatives has expressed deep concern over a sharp rise in fraudulent activities associated with Point-of-Sale (POS) operations across the country, warning that weaknesses in regulation and security are exposing Nigerians to alarming financial and national security risks. The concerns were raised on Monday during a resumed investigative hearing with fintech stakeholders at the National Assembly Complex. The session was convened by the House Ad-hoc Committee on the Economic, Regulatory and Security Implications of Cryptocurrency Adoption and POS Operations in Nigeria. Chairman of the Committee, Hon. Olufemi Bamisile, said the panel had received troubling reports…

By Jimmy FatunbiOnigbongbo Local Council Development Area (LCDA), under the leadership of the Executive Chairman, Hon. Moyosore Adebanjo, hosted a powerful delegation from Brampton, Canada, for economic growth, cultural exchange, and community development.The Canadian team was led by Mr. Richard Farward, Senior Manager of Financial Advisory Services at the Corporate Budget Office. Mr. Maurice Imadu, Adviser and Community Engagement Specialist in the Office of the Mayor of Brampton; Mrs. Kehinde Adelaja-Okoroafor, Founder of MakeMee Elegant Foundation; and Bashorun Oladapo Adekunle Sofowora, Founder of Rudder Blade Global Company were in the delegation.During the interactive session, Mr. Farward commended the vibrancy of…

By Peter Omopo Bauchi State Governor, Bala Mohammed, has condoled with the family and community of Brigadier General Abu Ali (rtd.), a former Military Administrator of the state, who passed away over the weekend. In a statement issued on Monday by his Special Adviser on Media and Publicity, Mukhtar Gidado, the governor described the late military officer as a distinguished leader whose contributions left a lasting impact on Bauchi State’s development. “Governor Bala Mohammed, on behalf of his family, government, and the good people of Bauchi State, mourns the passing of Brigadier-General (Rtd.) Abu Ali,” the statement read. “General Abu…